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Reading Check
1. Saedi opens her memoir by describing a scene from 1993. In what American city is her family’s home?
2. What Iranian political figure does Saedi regard as a hero who nationalized the oil industry?
3. Who rose to power in Iran following the Iranian Revolution, thus introducing Islamic law into the country?
4. The word “Iranian” refers to a nationality. To what does the word “Persian” refer?
Short Answer
Answer each question in at least 1 complete sentence. Incorporate details from the text to support your response.
1. What event causes Saedi to understand that she and her family are undocumented immigrants?
2. One of Saedi’s Canadian friends believes that all immigrants should enter the country with green cards. How does Saedi react to this belief?
3. Saedi lacks self-esteem in middle and high school. What factors are most detrimental to her self-esteem at that time?
4. What are the three stereotypes of Persian parents that Saedi describes that her own parents did not conform to?
Paired Resource
“What People Get Wrong About Iranian-Americans”
“Q&A with Sara Saedi, I Miss You I Hate This”
Reading Check
1. According to Saedi, what movie is the reason so many Iranians dislike actor Sally Field?
2. What does Saedi’s acronym “ICGS” stand for?
3. In what country is Saedi’s grandmother (Maman Farideh) born in the year 1926?
4. Saedi describes her most memorable fight with Kia, her younger brother. What is the main reason for this argument?
Short Answer
Answer each question in at least 1 complete sentence. Incorporate details from the text to support your response.
1. What is Saedi’s father’s attitude toward teenage drug experimentation, especially regarding marijuana?
2. What are some of the hardships that Farideh faced over the course of her life, which, now in old age, make her difficult to live with?
3. As Saedi answers in FAQ #3, why do Iranians keep watering cans in their bathrooms?
Paired Resource
“There’s a Better Way to Wipe: With a Bidet”
Reading Check
1. In a traditional Iranian marriage celebration, what is the sofreh aghd?
2. How many first cousins does Saedi have?
3. What type of product is sold in the retail store where Saedi’s parents work alongside one another?
4. After a period of being unhoused, Saedi paints a new mural for her bedroom. What does she title the mural?
Short Answer
Answer each question in at least 1 complete sentence. Incorporate details from the text to support your response.
1. Why does Saedi not understand the concept of a “family reunion”?
2. In 1992, Saedi’s parents divorce. Why do they do this?
3. In Chapter 11, Saedi considers herself to be a “product of incest.” How is this so?
Paired Resource
“What Combining a Persian and Irish Wedding Looks Like”
Reading Check
1. America uses the Gregorian calendar to mark time; what calendar does Iran use?
2. On what condition does Saedi’s mother promise to buy Saedi her dream dress for junior prom?
3. Which US President holds office while Saedi writes the majority of Americanized?
4. At what age does Saedi finally become an American citizen?
5. In the Epilogue, what 2009 Iranian political movement does Saedi discuss?
Short Answer
Answer each question in at least 1 complete sentence. Incorporate details from the text to support your response.
1. In 1925, Iran switched their calendar system to align with the pilgrimage of the Prophet Muhammad from Mecca to Medina—thus, the year 1925 became 1303. How does this calendar decision mirror a discrepancy with Saedi’s own personal history?
2. Why is Slash an important relationship for Saedi? How does he help her along in her evolution, romantically speaking?
3. Saedi expresses frustration at the inordinate amount of time she spends in immigration offices to apply for legal residency. What frustrates her about the system?
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